Monday, January 18, 2016

How to know you are in LOVE..

10.WAYS TO SEE YOU ARE IN LOVE..



1
.GIVING HER THE MOST PRIORITY..   

 I believe that when u are in love, your beloved person is the only thing you can see in this whole world, nothing else matters...not even your job...u just want to be more and more part of his/her life...want to know her/him more...want to spend more and more time with her/him..
Day and night passes like waves in the ocean but with each day u just  want to be with him/her.. u cant stop. Thnking about him/her..not even for a sec..
Sometimes people are so much busy with their life that they wont even call their love...i dont know how people can do that and say they are in true love..because i have seen people who even walk 5 miles to just met with her ,for only 10 minutes...leaving all the work for some other time...
I am not saying that u should  be a love romeo all the time..its not possible...but there's always a solution for every problem..u should just love your partner  enough to find it...


2. SEE THAT U HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER/HIM INNER PERSONLAITY OR PHYSICAL PERSONALITY 

Getting into a relationship for sex is lust not love..u find some girl atrractive and u want to have sex with her but u started enjoying her company and one day u think that u are in love....trust me dear, it will be over soon when u have someone more beautiful than her in your life...True love doesnt see physical attributes..its just about the fusion of two souls...u will get a unique feeling with her which u have never felt...In some cases people fall in true love after attraction. To each other...but dont be sure that's what happening to you.. When i was in my first relationship and i kissed my first gf for the first time..i thought   i am in love but then when she started making me frustrated i just wanted to find someone else who will never hurt  me...Back to the topic..=love is not  a desire to have sex its a desire to see sunset with her while holding her hands..
3. Jealousy


U will get jealous when she/he is talking about some other girl/guy...or u see her/him wirh some other person...
U just want her/him only for yourself...i believe jealousy is the first step of love..u are always afraid of loosing her/him..
But u should never get too much jealous or else it will make u insecure and u will start fighting a lot with your partner and it will create distances and  u may end up breaking up with your partner..instead u should. Appreciate your partner in his/her decisions and try to understand more.Understanding is better than misunderdtanding.

4.COURAGE TO FIGHT FOR YOUR PARTNER

today we live in a world where love is a taboo for some socities or people..the country where i live is divided in different religions..and people will kill if someone even tries to marry some person from different religion..they dont understand that " love has no religion, love is a religion"
Despite of all the problem if u truely love your partner u will fight the whole world to be with her/him...
Loosing her/him is something more valuable than even yourself..

5. ALWAYS THINKING OF YOUR BELOVED..


U always keep imagining yourself with her/him..u always see dreams with open eyes...U are so much involved with her that u can't  see other things clearly..

6. NOT ASHAMED OF YOUR PARTNER.. 

No matter what she/he wears, how he/she looks..what stupid thing they do u are never ever ashamed of being with your partner..instead u love everything about them and u find their stupid things funny not embarrasing...
When u are in love that person becomes your whole world and  u only care about that world and nothing else..

7. U SHARE EVERYTHING WITH HER.. 

If you are in love u will tell your partner the deepest secrets of your life...and if your partner truely loves u he/she will. Not judge u..
Let's say u find some hot chick and u asked her for a drink maybe as a friends but u didnt share this thing with your partner instesd u tried to hide it perfectly...then my friend  u arr doing the wrong thing cause u will hate it if your partner does the same exact thing...
So, dont hide things cause walking in the darkness together is better than walking alone in the sunshine..it's up to u to decide which path u want to walk..

8. ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE FOR YOUR PARTNER..

U should always be with your partner when they needs you..that shows care for your partner..care only comes from heart..
And never make your  girl cry cause some idiots are waiting to wiper her tears..
9.DOING ROMANTIC THINGS FOR YOUR PARTNER

when u are in love, u suddenly becomes the  romeo..u start doing what she/he likes..start bringing things that she/he wants...and only for the hope that your partner will recoginise that u are the only person who can love her/him the most in this world..

10. NEVER LAY A HAND ON HER/HIM

u dont ever beat the love of your life..or else it will be like beating the sunshine of your life...which will only burn your relationship...
First of all u will never get frustrated or so irritated with your beloved..otherwise it's an attraction not love..



These 10 are the common things that differentiates between love and. Infatuation...if u ever love someone truly your story will always have a happy ending...
P.s= sorry for my poor english :(